Is it even possible to reboot without relationships, without girl??

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Aldo_29, Apr 7, 2024.

  1. Aldo_29

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    Is it even possible to reboot without relationships, without girl??
     
  2. LetsBeLovely87

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  3. Yes it certainly is.
     
  4. ThePerspicacious

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    In my honest opinion it is better and easier(it will never be easy but comparing to the other case it is easier)
     
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  5. thetruth19)

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    Yup. If anything I'd say it's easier. Too many rounds with a lady that's into you can send you into a massive flatline. Best to just be around lots of men and women and just enjoy people's company. I think that helps you heal as it's a nice, easy, normal energy for your brain to rewire. And then, one day – you realise you're dam horny and things feel a lot better down there.
     
  6. Aldo_29

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    Thanks you guys.
     
  7. Aldo_29

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    Are y end your reboot? Is it successful?
     
  8. thetruth19)

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    No, I've healed 2-3 times over the years but and relapsed as I couldn't handle the libido! I went from extreme paws – zero libido – to 100 mph libido. So it was too much to control. I'm very close to healing again. I keep having 1-2 hour windows in the day of feeling healed.
     
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  10. gordonfreeman14603

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    If you really want to quit PMO and have the determination, why not?
     
  11. Bruce K

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    Yes, but in my opinion its better if you practice some spirituality..
     
  12. steezytheneezy

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    Yes, I did it! Here’s a collection of posts that might help you.The first one post really helped me during my flatline. I encourage you to read the first post more multiple times. I titled each post with what it helped me with

    1. How to deal with and understand all the hurdles of NoFap and especially flatline, boredom, rage, depression, loneliness, anxiety, loss, and change by RebornInLife https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/semen-retention-and-emotional-and-energetic-detox.323103/


    2. RebornInLifes NoFap Posts and his hardrive with his material

    https://www.reddit.com/r/Semenretention/s/1Ol6MxX4gr

    https://www.reddit.com/r/Semenretention/s/ZmXCyCF0Te



    3. Taqwa's Daily NoFap Journal, Truly inspirational
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/taqwa-my-mostly-daily-journal.49934/



    4. When I started to feel rage for a month and a half https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comm...=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1&rdt=58708

    5. Helped me understand the heat generated in my belly that woke me up in the middle of the night multiple times
    https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comm...p&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1

    https://www.quora.com/Is-there-a-wa...ractising-certain-types-of-pranayama-and-yoga

    6. There was a month of time where I wanted nothing to do with women. I felt like this guy https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...cted-to-me-nofap-worked-but-theres-a-problem/

    7. For dealing with narcissistic people
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/beware-if-this-explains-your-relationship-w-so.111514/

    8. Understanding my feelings
    https://***.net/blog/nofap-depression/

    9. Semen Retention and Chakra Understanding
    https://ledbysource.com/semen-retention-chakra-activation/
     
    Last edited: Apr 29, 2024
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  13. tawwab1

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    A girl can either make your recovery easier or make it much harder, so beware. It depends on the quality of the girl. You have to work at your recovery either way, so just focus on yourself. But if you have an opportunity to pursue someone worth pursuing, do that and don't be afraid.
     
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  14. Casserole

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    Defiantly possible. If you bring a girl in to soon you might become disinterested or start acting out Porn with her which is not love. essentially using her as your crutch. If you bring in a girl take it slow.
     
  15. Starling

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    And is it possible to reboot in a relationship, with a girl?
     
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  16. gordonfreeman14603

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    People want to believe that being with a girl solves your problems. Trust me it doesn't at all. And btw if you guys are even peeking a little for p*rn, you are wasting your PMO abstinence time.
     
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  17. Meshuga

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    Yes, but it depends on the addict and his support. A relationship can sabotage recovery as well as assist it.
     
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