Unless you have a lot money, have a lot of friends or are in decent shape, meeting all those expectations is a lot of work. No wonder guys turn to porn
Don't know if you need all those thing but it's not easy. If it was easy it wouldn't be worth getting. I don't need easy, I just need possible. - Bethany Hamilton
It doesn't seem hard at all to guys that know what they're doing. It's just a skill set, like anything else. Not saying I have that skill set.
It kinda seems like for a girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic to develop, that both peoples’ lifestyles need to sort of match up for example, if a guy works Monday - Friday 9-5 and a girl works Tuesday - Sunday 5pm - 2am, then a relationship probably will not form. It could, but less statistically probable I’d say So yea, it can be too much work. Something more convenient is better - living close together or similar schedules
Is that really true or is it something people tell themselves to cope with pain? Air is easy to get yet breathing is a worthwhile activity.
