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Donations for the further growth of Nofap

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Knight Solaire, Apr 30, 2015.

Would you be willing to donate money in order to further help the Nofap community?

  1. Yes

    28 vote(s)
    93.3%
  2. No

    2 vote(s)
    6.7%
  1. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends,


    It has recently come to my attention that the forums are slowing down. If you have or haven't noticed, it's because the forums are reaching the capacity of users. The place we call a home and shelter of rehabilitation is becoming so popular that it has almost reached its max again.

    I am making this thread it order to show Alexander that if he is willing to put the time in, we are willing to help. I wanted to put up a poll of sorts to see just how many people would donate at least a dollar to the cause.

    I am doing this just because I want to help further the growth of the forums. If you have any questions, post them here. If you want to donate, let us know.

    Let us show Alexander just how much we are willing to help the forums!
     
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  2. Limeaid

    Limeaid Guest

    Can you donate anonomously? It might deter people if they have to give actual names, addresses and such....
     
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  3. Kurapika

    Kurapika Guest

    I wish I could but I am still financially dependent on my parents and they don't even know about this.
     
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  4. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    I think that donating anonymity would be just fine. Especially if it would help more people donate.

    I know you support the forums wonderfully Kurapika. Your thread with all of the info and success stories is wonderful.
     
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  5. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    I would also like to mention, although I have notified Alexander of me creating this thread, he has nothing to do with me making it.
     
  6. I don't think there's a person on this forum that hasn't been helped at least a little bit by this website. For me personally, this forum launched me into adulthood in that iffy transition period between college and the professional world. I owe this website EVERYTHING.

    Everything positive that's happened in the last year and a half is at least partially-linked to NoFap. That being said, I'm a dirt-poor college grad still living at home with his parents (at 24). Somewhere down the road, I would of course be willing to donate money. And I'm not talking chump-change either. I'm talking five figures. This website is THAT important to me. But that day may take a year or a decade. So there lies the problem, OP; most if not all the members of this forum aren't in a position to even help themselves financially, much less this website.
     
  7. Grichnoch

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    I'd definitely be up for chipping in a bit.
     
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  8. Knight Solaire

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    First of all, I would like to congratulate you on making it two months PMO free. That is a wonderful achievement and I am proud to have you in our community.

    When I originally put this up, I was thinking that maybe people could donate a dollar or two. I wasn't planning on asking anyone to donate five figures. Your story is wonderful PDM.

    Maybe I should change the poll to "would you be willing to donate a dollar to nofap to help the forum progress?". I don't anyone to think they owe anyone anything. I would just like to see what people think of the idea. Right now, the forum is reaching capacity. If it does that, then it will not be able to gain any new members and help more people in the future. My idea was simply to have the option of having people donate.
     
  9. Knight Solaire

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    Alexander has recently said he doesn't have the money to upgrade the forum. I just want to try and help.
     
  10. Thanks very much @Sun Bro and others! We definitely need to get NoFap a stream of income to support the site. Going on a camping trip for a couple of days and will ponder this. When I come back, hopefully there will be clear answers.

    I am not "anti-ad" but don't like the idea of Google Adsense or other "random" adverts on the forum or site because of the potential of triggers. While porn is usually not allowed, sometimes it slips through, along with triggering ads (such as bikinis, etc) that would be allowed by the publisher. Ads, if we had them, would have to be screened. But again, I would prefer not to have them.

    There is a donate page which has been linked which just doesn't get enough to support the site. I think we've gotten 45 dollars in the past 3 months. With the money I've paid out of pocket for hosting, development, etc over 2014, I spent over 15 grand in the hole. I am happy to do this because I am passionate about leveling up humanity - I genuinely don't care about riches. I really don't. I live very frugally despite making relatively good money for my age in web development. I don't own a car. I don't buy fancy things. I spend all of my money on this website because I love the community and I love impacting the world positively.

    With that being said, it isn't sustainable for NoFap to bring in no income. If I became homeless (dramatic, I know), the site would go under, and that is not a safe way to operate. So going to spend this weekend to think about how we could monetize NoFap in a sustainable way that won't negatively effect the Fapstronauts. Maybe a donator usergroup on the forum with a trophy under your username, etc? Might be more incentive than just a donation page which is never used.
     
  11. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Dear Alexander, I doubt if any of us here have an idea of the true extent of your philanthropy in spearheading this movement with this website and related activities. For thousands of people, this resource has been the nub of a life-changing experience. I agree that NoFap is unsustainable without some changes and I am sure a community we can come up with some answers to this. On a purely personal note, I greatly appreciate a forum sans advertising and hope that it stays that way. I hope that is realistic. :)

    On your status today, you mention running a half marathon - good luck btw! It sparked a thought which prompted me to come here and post something. If anyone else is running a full/half marathon (or doing any other challenging feat), perhaps they can use it to raise money for NoFap. I am not sure if NoFap would have to be a registered charity, but I don't think so. The other thought I had is that there might be fundraisers here by profession that could offer advice about other ways to finance NoFap. If they don't want to identify this skill on the forum, they could discuss it with you via private message and you could lay out their advice in a off topic thread. All the very best: IGY.
     
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  12. Andrew01

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    We are now more then 40000 user.If each of us donated 1$ that would make more than 40000$.I think everyone can afford one dollar!Just find a way to make anonymous!!!
     
  13. IGY

    IGY Guest

    It is a good point, although only a few hundred are probably active at any one time. I suspect most of that number are now, unused, defunct accounts.
     
  14. Limeaid

    Limeaid Guest

    EVERYONE on this site can afford $1. Seriously, go beg on the street for it if you need to!

    Anonymity is very important and if you have ads for porn blockers that wouldn't bring in any suggestive material especially if it is a "fixed" ad instead of a rolling ad. So for example paying for a certain sized block and you just add their moniker might work. Kind of like a newspaper ad. So many people ask the question "what porn blockers do you use". This way the answer is right there with a link to their site. I have seen convenant eye ads on other forums.

    Another idea is to offer something for the donation. An e-booklet of tips and tricks for example? Or all the stickied sections condensed into an e-file?
     
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  15. Have made progress as a human being since finding this community. Absolutely I will contribute/donate. Apologies for not having the knowledge of these things to have asked about it before.
     
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  16. DannyCool

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    Yes I would be willing to give something. This movement or website is getting bigger ever day right?
     
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  17. Yeah I wouldn't mind seeing ads for porn blockers and other "wholesome" ads on here. I'm pretty anti-advertisement too. Also Limeaid's e-book idea is great. We can have some of the members write articles about a specific aspect of porn/ porn recovery and compile them together into a book of essays. It would finally be a way to get all this great knowledge offered here in one place: the science of how pornography effects our brains, what pornography does to society, the violence in the pornography industry, the science behind rebooting, Coolidge effect, chaser, all that sort of stuff. Maybe even a historical overview of different society's attitudes towards masturbation.
     
  18. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    I love this idea. You and @Limeaid should definitely be the ones heading it!
     
  19. Limeaid

    Limeaid Guest

    I'm in! The only thing I will say is that maybe there should be a choice. Not everyone wants the whole "history and sociology" of porn rammed down their throats. They are just looking for some tips and tricks to keep handy. So we could have a table of contents with subjects like how to handle urges, flatlining, rewiring etc. Like a go to guide for beating porn. I could make that book for sure! Would be more than happy to!
     
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  20. Maybe we could write two books? One a guide, another that goes into depths about pornography? And we could offer them at different giving levels, like the chaps at NPR do during their fundraising drives?
     
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