Wtf am I even doing?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Deleted Account, Nov 4, 2019.

  1. Honestly I got new clue why im doing NoFap, really. It started off after I went a few days without masturbating after I got a bit more sore than usual and realized 'okay, I need to calm down' (Mind you, life is stressful, my family is a mess and I lost my job). Then November started a few days later and I joked about NoFap. It started as a joke but now each time I feel the need/urge I remind myself to not masturbate.

    On one hand I wish could say its all 'so strong' of me but on the other hand my commitment to it scares the crap out of me. Don't know what's sane anymore; the urge to masturbate or my conscience screaming at me to not do it.

    Anyone else here ended up doing NoFap halfway by accident or am I just nuts?
     
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  2. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to nofap! Nothing wrong with accidentally joining us! Feel free to check the other forums!
     
  3. I imagine wanting to quit masturbation due to fear of permanently ripping your dick skin apart even more is a valid concern...
     
  4. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    Yes, it's definitely a good thing to be gentle to your dick. :)
     
  5. Medically speaking how badly can someone 'break' their penis?
     
  6. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    I mean, I'm no doctor, but I believe if you are erect it is possible to damage the spongy tissue in your penis if you twist/bend it enough. You should not really be doing that during the course of normal masturbation, I would think?
     
  7. Does NoFap have resources on penis health? Kind of scared I 'broke something'.
     
  8. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    Why, what's going on with it?
     
  9. Probably nothing and just the nature bending. Don't really have a frame of comparison with other dicks, since porn obviously select the biggest, fattest and straightest dicks. I assume it not being perfectly arrow-straight is entirely nature and bending to one side a bit is within the norms of human biology. Like i've said: wasn't comparing my dick to other dicks and am not sporty so i've never been in a locker room with other naked guys.

    Its probably just paranoia.
     
  10. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    There is a wide range in penis phenotype - they can be long, short, thick, thin, bendy or ramrod straight. If they bend, they can bend up or down or to the side. As long as you're not in active pain, your dick is probably fine.
     
  11. There is no pain, not since I stopped due to going sore.
     
  12. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    Soreness is different. You probably just chafed your dick at the surface level, which is bad, but will heal in time. Be nice to your dick.
     
  13. Yeah this is why im here x_x
     
  14. keepitinmybriefs

    keepitinmybriefs Fapstronaut

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    You've come to the right place! Might I also recommend trying briefs, if you don't already wear them?
     
  15. jos1.0

    jos1.0 New Fapstronaut

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    yup... it's had 5 days i haven't play a single. I'm very confident and if the urge come i kick on his ass n give a bye bye to it....even I'm doing it since 14
     
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