Hello, 25 year old guy on day 10 of NoFap. I'm pretty motivated and I honestly feel as if I can go the rest of my life without the fap right now. So, I started the challenge to save myself for a woman, a woman who I knew in highschool, not even really knew, but someone I saw around.. Hot chick with a banging body, who were the cause of a few fap sessions back in the day. I saw that she posted an ad on one of the local escort pages and i became really excited. I gave myself a few different financial goals, along with the 90 day NoFap before contacting her... NoFap has been a interest of mine since middle school, at the time I failed and haven't tried again until now.. The beautiful dream has seem to be my motivation.. but I'm pretty sure that is all wrong.
Well If you ask me nofap is more than just holding back for a woman. In fact it’s holding back for your on sake. You want to find happiness without being a slave to your sexuality then this is your path! But not masturbating because you basically just wanna f*ck a hot chick is worthless. You will see that she can offer charisma and character or you will get bored with her sober or later no doubt. Try meeting her try getting to know her but don’t go into that with the attitude to just buy her. Maybe admiring an escort isn’t rare but it’s not what’s in the base of a healthy relationship. It’s just lust not love. Don’t buy her, connect with her. I hope I’m not confusing you. Anyways welcome to the nofap community !
Hello and welcome! We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started. Getting Started Guide | How to Use the NoFap Forums | Panic Button|Day Counter | Rebooting Resources|Forum Rules | Glossary If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
