Excuse me for the funny title, but I'm trying to just get it out! So many of us feel a sense of deep, DEEP, longing in our hearts for something more real than sex, porn, "feeling good" alone in our bedroom. Some of use crave genuine love and intimacy with others. This is so beautiful. Are you one of those people? I am. Quitting porn was an important step for me but that step alone wasn't enough to start satisfying my deep spiritual hunger for love and connection. But it was a great start. Addictions of any kind separate ourselves from ourselves (the opposite of intimacy and connection). I encourage everyone to keep letting go of their addictions. You are worth it! Some of you don't know this, but need to hear this: Your authentic desire for closeness and intimacy with a beloved romantic person is beautiful and needs to be held sacred. The right romantic partner will find those qualities very sexy and attractive about you. The more you can honor and love the more "tender" parts of yourself, the more that exact message is broadcast to the universe and you will start attracting friends and potential intimate partners into your life that can honor and love you for who you really are. But it's an inside job, first. Do not buy into the superficial games of manipulation, PUA, coercion, addiction, objectification, etc. These are all "mind foods" and will never fill your deepest longings to be seen, validated, valued, recognized, and to love and be loved. It's time to uplevel into your own self-love. From there, the universe responds accordingly and you become very attractive. Once you are filling yourself up from within, you've got an overflowing cup to share with others. Then, from a space of abundance, YOU get to decide who to share yourself with. Do you feel this in your heart? Can you feel resonance with these words? You deserve to be met. You are SO WORTHY of all the love, intimacy, connection you long for. You cannot control the outside, but you can up-level from the inside-out. The outside follows the inside, following suit, albeit delayed, generally. Skip the mind junk food and go for the full-spectrum heart food.
