To those who want to retain semen

Liberation is detach from the liberation itself.

You're neither attached nor.detached.

Be in the world, live your potential the way it is, don't judge your action( then you don't judge others also), you just blossom like a flower, fly like a butterfly, roar like a lion, live like a complete human.

The worry about PMO or any other drifting habit automatically vanishes.

If urges come, don't fight, welcome it, look into the urge without fear. If the urge is appropriate, it finds the proper way to fullfill it otherwise burn to ashes.

Your fear is giving strength to the mind and making it to behave like a master. Let the mind know it's actual place.

Be yourself!

 

Release what needs to be released so that you align with what you are.

You don't need to do anything to release, it naturally happens like purging of waste through bowel.

All you've to do is, be courageous to let it go.

Be yourself!

 

All the setbacks are giving you the needed strength & courage to break the cocoon(identity) to free yourself and to live your potential.

Be yourself!

 

When a frog faces a snake,
when an individual faces the god(intelligence),
the result is the same,
only one remains.

God's existence,
devotee's existence,
only till the realisation.

The distance between you & the truth,
the distance between eye & the eyelid.

When you liberate yourself,
the world around you also get liberated.

When a blind person went to see a garden,
a dumb person explained it's beauty,
a deaf person enjoyed the explanation,
that is how we see, talk and hear about god or soul or intelligence.

Except human,
all other species are in total alignment with the intelligence.

 

This topic isn't for casual retainers.

There is a phase in SR journey almost the last one, you can sense and feel your rebirth as if you are breaking the outer shell or coming out from the womb. All the concentrated strength & life force through the years of SR makes you push with total force and breaks the shell to free you from the bondage and align with the nature. For some it may be bit painful, but you can't do anything about it. You can feel and experience the shackles are breaking all through the spine to the top of head. There seems a lock(knot) at the top of the head and it only opens when your task of this birth accomplished. When that opens you enter the doors of nirvana(a complete silence or freedom). Some may reach to the doors but don't enter, very few enter the doors. Then they become complete intelligence, no seperation of any kind.

While in SR journey, when you feel tingling or pressure at certain areas in the body, mainly through the spine to the head, you'll see there is a shift in your life and thinking process.

All the endocrine glands become fully functional as the potential rise and cleanse them.

Initial gains in SR is temporary, as you progress there might be hardships, as there are many changes happen in your biology and inturn effect your thinking, emotions & physiology.

Those who are actually ready, the process progress otherwise you continue in the preparation loop till you're ready.

The good thing about SR journey, you become courageous and this courage gives you strength to continue SR and the process repeat till you're totally ready to release the entire baggage.

Rebirth is a natural happening in the human body like in a butterfly life. Most are afraid to go through the process and that resistance they call it as suffering.

The cultural thinking created lot of fears thus seperating you from naturality.

Be yourself!

 

The state of total & complete courage is blissful state.

 

A writer orchestrate the characters action(karma) in any given story.

In your life story, who is that writer?
Yourself.

When I say yourself, that isn't the identity(name) but the actual you.

None is responsible for your actions but yourself.

Be yourself!

 

@Warrior4Freedom the poor alternative to actual action is thinking. Action demands courage, those who are cowards, spend most of the time in thinking.

Surrendering is aligning with the truth. The simplest and the best way to be yourself. No extra practise or efforts needed. Total & complete surrender means you're accepting the life as it is. In surrender there is total & complete action.

You don't acquire wisdom, wisdom choose you, then without effort you become wise.

Once you're touched by the wisdom aka the intelligence, you automatically surrender. It has its own authority, trust automatically happens. Later, even you can't live a moment other than surrender state.

Even though I don't have inclination to change others, I'm in the forum to put the fact that surrender is the only way that you can live your potential, then PMO or other drifting habits won't be an issue at all.

 

The EGO quality of the intelligence makes the world come into existence. Our ego's are miniscule in comparison with the former ego. Surrendering makes our ego merge with the one and only EGO. This EGO is the trinity, splits itself into subject, object & energy. That which witness the happening is the AWARENESS quality of the intelligence.

You're the intelligence. This intelligence doesn't bind to anything. There is no such thing as your intelligence and my intelligence. IQ is a big joke. Who are you to measure the intelligence? Are you really capable to understand the intelligence and measure it?

Be yourself!

 

Brain is a sort of antenna, it picks the signals.from matching wavelengths. It reacts to the incoming signals. You may call this signals as thoughts. Even brain is not the store of memory. Every cell in the body has its own memory. Even entire body is an antenna. But a part in the brain acts as a broadcasting instrument through which you're releasing the information. When that part of the brain becomes fully functional, it can take care of keeping the thoughts in its actual place. So thoughts can't control and mislead you.

Mind is the silo of all humans thoughts & experiences since human acquire the capability of thinking.

For a natural man there is no such thing as mind that exists.

 

When the gold realises it is the gold, what use does that have to gold? Neither profit nor loss. Whether realising or not, it is always the gold.

Likewise either you realise or not, that you're the wisdom aka the intelligence, no difference, you are always that.

Don't run behind realisation, that is the one taking you away from your actuality.

Be yourself!

 

Thoughts aren't the problem. It is when you try to use it, then it becomes the problem and start using you.

Either knowingly or unknowingly, you given lot of momentum to the thoughts, it takes time for those to fall into its actual place.

Thoughts on its own don't have strength to propagate. It is your intentions that uses thoughts and give strength to its propagation.

To achieve something in the functional world, there is no other way than to use the thoughts.

And there is no other world for you to live in. The best bet is don't take the ownership of your intentions. It is tough initially, but you adapt to it.

Surface level thoughts don't do much and when these thoughts go deep and becomes intentions, it gets tremendous strength. Casually when you think to achieve something doesn't happen, it is when a strong intention to achieve something stirs the life forces to make it happen. Beware of your intentions.

Thought is matter and the space around us is also matter.

Time is an illusion but thought makes it to feel like real.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

You put efforts to form a habit, you need to put even more efforts to release the habit.

Be wise in forming habits.

 

Your problem isn't PMO, other addictions or boredom. Your problem is thoughts and it's control on you.

What is that it is taking you away from your actuality? THOUGHTS.

Thoughts are thriving on your attention and because of your intentions you give attention to the thoughts. Even to control thoughts, you must give attention, that's the problem here.

What is the origin of these thoughts? Does these originate in you? Thoughts aren't you. None of the thoughts are your own. The identity that has given to you by culture is nothing but a thought, and all other thoughts weave around it. Is that identity is the actual you? No, it is imposed by the society & the culture.

How to deal with the thoughts then? Attention implies you have interest. Don't show interest towards the thoughts, means neither reject nor accept.

What happens when you show interest on someone? They start to control you, the same happens with the thoughts.

No such thing as good thoughts or bad thoughts, all that is your interpretation depends on your beliefs. Let the thoughts come and go, don't try to stop or control.

It is the same thought that says there is such a thing as thoughtless state, don't drag by that.

It is the body's intelligence that knows exactly which thought to give attention to, let the body take care of itself. But you are afraid to let it happen that way because that's not what the society and culture taught you.

Be courageous walk your way, you see thought is the servant to the vital life force.

Be prepared & be yourself!

 

The world is running because of words & labels(names). You should name something to recognise and attach attributes and description. Then there is a communication.

We do the same with the god. The god which we describe with attributes isn't god at all.

Accept everything as god, no problem.
Accept there is no god at all, no problem.
Accepting some part of the existence as god and remaining not is the problem.

Accept every piece of the land as a holy place, no problem.
Accept there is no holy place at all, no problem.
Accepting some places as holy is the problem.

The differences come as you start to naming and the conflict begin.

 

It is easy to misunderstand,
it is tough to understand,
misunderstanding needs ignorance,
understanding needs intelligence.

An unripe fruit is ignorance,
ripened one is wisdom,
the same fruit but different levels of maturity.

Whatever is boiling inside,
somehow come out like a volcanic eruption.

Who don't have a desire, can't shine,
who don't have a desire, can't be a poet,
who don't have a desire, can't be liberated.

The greatest of all desires is sex,
sex can make you shine, poetic and finally liberated.

Sex isn't the problem,
but twisted ideas about
and suppression is the problem.

Be your potential,
live your potential,
remaining everything follows on its own.

When you reject all the paths,
then there is a chance of finding your own.

It's easy trying for the truth outside,
it's uncomfortable to find the truth inside,
but the truth lies inside not outside.

 

If.semen retention and optimally using it not there in your being, you don't even incline towards it.