I'm 50 days in to a Hardmode reboot and have recently started dating. I've kissed her and I've told her about what I'm doing but I'd really like to be intimate. A part of me just wants to do the 90 days Hardmode just to say I'd done it the other part of me thinks that the sooner I start having normal relationships the sooner I can put porn behind me. I'm not having a hard time keeping my hand off or staying away from porn... What's everyone's opinion?
First of all, congratulations for your love and hope the relationship will reach to a good destination. Bro, to be honest with you , you have to ask her if she is ready to intimate or just wanna make simple and clean relationship , first ask 4 her feelings if she says yes , so you can start the first step towards to start journey to experience of her beauty . Besides if u have specific goal or reason, never force someone which leads to doubt and love decline. Bro, sex is good as compared to we all did like watched porn promptly and wasted our precious time for just watching couples having sex ?, Or just play with own penis , i don't think that it is right . That's my thinking. Do whatever you think right , don't woory about anyone or anything , it's your feelings okay ? Love you
I'd say go for it, but be mindful of the chaser effect. Also if u do have an ed situation don't use it as an excuse to relapse just to make sure it's still working.
