Hello, I think I have a problem with porn and masturbation so I joined this group in hopes of boosting my commitment with others who have similar goals. I prefer to stay anonymous as I'm not comfortable sharing my secrets when there is a face to go with private information that will most likely be judged. My goal is to stop masturbation, watching pornographic images and videos, and also putting aside my values for an attractive person for a year (365days starting from May 13, 2015). I think this will boost my productivity as well as my motivation to go out and meet people, live life, and improve different areas of my life that, I think, are being put aside due to lack of motivation and instant gratification. I just read something about a person who waits before having sex is correlated to staying committed in a longer relationship. I'm not sure if it helps with having a more meaningful relationship but I'm willing to try. Good luck to each of of you who are on your own journey and wish me luck!
Nofap does shift your perception of life and relationships drastically. There is a ton of valuable advise on here that has helped me come to a stage where I don't find the need for PMO in my life. Wishing you success on your journey towards healing from your problem. It's not easy but it's worth it.
Thanks man. Good to know it's possible to change a major habit - it'll definitely make good evidence to support resisting the urges.
