SR Skeptic - Genuinely Asking

It’s definitely not going to harm you to make love and quit before you finish. It makes the experience better because you can stop, talk to her for a bit, then an hour later you can start again and you’re even stronger. You can do this all night and your woman will be confused at first but blown away at the end.

You can do this as long as you want with no health problems.

If you are married you should O in her sometimes because that’s what women desire most. They get more pleasure from that than from their own orgasm. So if you never give your wife that then it’s not really fair to her and she’s gonna complain about it.

But if you make sex all about O then you wear yourself out and your energy gets out of whack.

It’s all about balance.

 

I practice sex without ejaculation and Im 100% satisfied. Thats when I have someone. When I dont - Im celibate.

 

Are you getting blue balls from actual lovemaking or masturbating to porn?

PMO addiction is very harsh on the penis so it’s probably not lack of O that’s giving you pain. It’s whatever you’re doing down there

 

What, like dancing at a club?

 

I dunno man. I’d look at your overall sexual health before you give up on the idea. Lots of people do retention or karezza with no problem. It helps most people. And it’s a 1000 year old practice from Chinese medicine. Do you do edging or always jump straight to O?

 

I asked because if your body is trained to go straight from 0 to 100 with no stops and no delays then I could see how stopping in the middle would lead to a problem. But if your body is used to it then it’s no problem. Not trying to be nosy but you asked for a real answer so just trying to help you get to the bottom of it.

 

The spermatozoa are transmuted in the prostate gland, so if you transmute then you won’t have any problems. However, if you don’t transmute then issues will start to appear at some point. Transmutation is not difficult. What’s difficult for many is having the WILL to practice it every day.

 

Quick tip, douse your blue balls in cold water. No need to break your streak and very effective. Works for me.

 

The only advantage to not ejaculating during sex is dodging the post-orgasm hangover, but it is not that significant if it is only once a week.

It is impossible to retain semen/sperm after sex. It is transferred and ready to be ejaculated, then it is lost. You might as well blow your load, you can't cheat nature.

The healthy way is to not go overboard with sex and enjoy it in moderation. I'd say semen retention is more for guys who want to attract girls, or want to set aside sex and focus on their career.

 

I cannot even imagine this. and im an old guy. I put my dick in a nice warm wet pussy, and its over real soon

 

Why don't you give it a try? There's not much to loose I think.

 

There are methods like tantric sex or karezza that allow people to retain semen while and after having sex. I'm not familiar with them, however, in the sense of using these strategies.

 

What are you doing with women if you are not having children?