Hi, im 28, so I've been watching porn since probably age 12 (thanks internet!) but I'd never really considered myself as having a problem until I got married, and a few years back my wife found my search history, and surprise, it's a lot of shit she's not cool with. Nothing outright extreme, mostly lesbian porn, trans porn at the weirder end of it. So naturally I didn't stop, I'd just delete my search history and move on, lie to her, tell her I wasn't watching porn, and the secret kinda just grew bigger. started subscribing to onlyfans accounts, etc, and blew a shit ton of money on that, and naturally i get caught again, which of course leads to drama, and now here I am potentially facing the end of my marriage because I'm helpless to stop something as stupid as watching porn. I never really saw it as an issue until I realized how much of my time and money was going into scratching that itch, i guess? So I realize I need to do something different but I'm not too sure where to start, if anyone had some guidance I'd appreciate it.
Welcome. Congrats for coming here You are not alone. Tons of great stuff around. Maybe wander around the forum. Try to respond or read some stories. We all have our way to do it. I like to have a plan in case of urges. I come here each time my mind seeks for P. and try to apply the no touching rule but others have other ways Stay trying we do this together