Hey everyone, So I have a problem.. the majority of my life, the girls that have liked me a lot I wasn't very physically attracted to, but the girls I am physically attracted to either have a boyfriend, are married, say no to me, or have only dated me a couple times and then didn't want to hang out anymore. How do I go to that next level and get myself a girl I am truly physically attracted to and really excited to have sex with? Any advice out there?
what do you mean by too high? Like unrealistically too high? do you think this is a result from watching porn videos over the years and searching for a hot girl to PMO to?
Yes, and yes, it could be due to viewing pron. Focus more on the woman's character and personality first before her physical beauty.
Are you married or currently have a girlfriend? okay, I will make an effort to try and see past a girls looks and just try and see her personality/soul/mind/heart/character this will help regardless… even to get a more attractive girl too because she will think I’m different
What do you consider physically attractive? Are your standards unrealistic? Maybe patience will pay off. If you give it time, the right person will come along.
Im honestly not that picky… basically I just want a girl younger than me, who doesn’t have kids, who is in decent physical shape, and has a decently attractive face I’m not that picky really, just want to be truly turned on sexually by her and not have to pretend
Ok. I think a lot of men have expectations for breast size and body shape. And honestly there’s not a lot we can do about that. So have grace. That’s all I wanted to say. Have grace with and know that the perfect body doesn’t exist
thanks, only problem is I like everyone’s personality to be honest… but I guess I’ll try and think about personality more
okay, thanks, I’ll keep that in mind.. plus the longer I stay away from PMO, the wider variety of girls I find attractive, so I think getting away from PMO is really important
Once you get away from PMO, you'll begin to value character and loyalty more. Sex is fleeting, but having someone who will always be there for you is beautiful and something of great value. Me personally, that has become a turn on, and sex is supposed to solidify an already existing conection between a man and a woman. It is really the final step. Again though, I believe this is something that occurs as you rewire and detox.
i feel you, it’s hard out here in todays messed up dating market. don’t settle for someone who ur not truly sexually attracted to. in the meantime build up your physique status money streak looks so you can attract higher
Thanks a lot for the responses, appreciate it. on your current streak, have you gotten to a point where you no longer have wet dreams? Or do you still get them every once in a while?