So there’s a girl whose super into me, we tried to have sex last week but I couldn’t get properly aroused, I then realised I had a bad case of PIED, my refractory time is about 3 days, which is very bad because of PIED. She wants to see me again in the next couple of days, I relapsed today and in my mind telling myself I’m not ready/ recharged. I will try via gra but it seems to be hit and miss for me, only tried it a few times. At the moment I’m browsing P when bored, I find P very boring at the moment, but it’s just a bad habit, then it’s kinda like I’m looking for an excuse to MO. In a weeks time I’ll be putting on blockers so I can’t watch P again. And the healing process can begin. I’ve gone from watching it for hours a day, to browsing about 30-60 mins, less some days. So hopefully this trend continues to near 0, then perfect time to put he blockers on, end on a dud experience. I know real interaction helps the healing of PIED, as my brain is attracted more to screens than real sensations. But in my mind I’ve already set myself up for failure, kind of dreading it unless the via gra works. Maybe I can make up an excuse or suggest to take things slow, I’m bad at saying no to people though. Does anyone have similar experiences or advise please? I have found in the past that having sex is quite a healing experience for PIED, as long as no P is viewed before you have sex again, and it’s a fairly fast recovery from there. I’ve just got to have the arousal for sex first.
Majority of us are going through the same thing. It’s gonna take time. Cut porn for sure. It definitely does improve and time will tell. I wouldn’t avoid homegirl so definitely keep trying to have sex but don’t force it either. Good luck
