Handjobs and blowjobs

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Zeus7777, Feb 20, 2022.

  1. Zeus7777

    Zeus7777 Fapstronaut

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    Question: while you on nofap. Is it okay to receive handjobs from your partner or blowjobs??
     
  2. feedthebear

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    Depends on your goals. Personally, I don’t think you need to abstain from any sexual activity with your partner.
     
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  3. Zeus7777

    Zeus7777 Fapstronaut

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    So all sexual activities with a partner are okay, long as it's not PMO'ing?
     
  4. feedthebear

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    Again, depends on your goals, but rebooting can still take place while engaging in partnered sexual activities. I guess people call it “Easy” mode. Personally, I don’t even abstain from masturbation, I just try to keep it from being compulsive.
     
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  5. In my opinion, if you're trying to give up porn, and have a partner you can be sexually active with, I would say go ahead and enjoy your time with your partner. I know for me personally when I am in a relationship, my interest in porn drops because the real thing is always so much better.
     
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  6. Zeus7777

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    Thank you for the advice mate
     
  7. ANewFocus

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    Just make sure you aren’t substituting and using your partner.
     
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  8. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    If you're trying to cure PMO-induced ED, then HJs might be counterproductive.
     
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  9. While I struggle with the NoFap I try to focus on my wife more to re-wire my brain to remember why shes the one that excites me in the first place instead of porn. Shes my partner for a reason, we are supposed to enjoy each other. If you have a partner, me personally I'd focus on that while you're doing your NoFap.
     
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  10. I would say to have a break from everything for a month or two at least. Then your brain will really start craving your partner and appreciate her more
     
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  11. Jay.Rhone34

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    I think oral is ok , masturbation ehh I’m not to sure . I remember my partner jerker me off, but for some reason that afternoon I jerked off because I felt there was more in there .
     
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  12. Zeus7777

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    Haha as for there was more in there
     
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  13. Zeus7777

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    This sounds like a good idea
     
  14. Wugazi32

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    Sex is fine on NoFap, just do soft mode reboot.
     
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  15. The title of this thread may be triggering.
     
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