Fantasising

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by naruhina, Jul 7, 2023.

  1. naruhina

    naruhina Fapstronaut

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    Yesterday I was taking a shower and I started to fantasize about a girl I made out 4/5 months ago Ave I got hard for like 6/7 minutes, I’ve hadn’t been that hard for that long since a long time. I’m on day 145 of no pmo.
    My question is is fantasising not good for recovery? And I didn’t fantasize about porn I fantasized about a girl with whom I had made out with.
    Please let me know if this is wrong and I should stop fantasising overall.
    Thank you
     
  2. See it as a positive, your brain is rewiring to fantasise over real life connections and people. It's progress.
     
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  3. Chaste guy

    Chaste guy Fapstronaut

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    If you want to continue streak, you should avoid fantasies, because they can result in relapses. In short, I wouldn't.
     
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  4. naruhina

    naruhina Fapstronaut

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    I definitely want to continue this streak until my libido is back and I start getting spontaneous erections when I see them in public?
    So you’re telling I shouldn’t fantasise about anything right now? Is that right?
     
  5. Chaste guy

    Chaste guy Fapstronaut

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    In short, yeah. Fantasy is still just a fantasy, it is not a real deal.
     
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  6. naruhina

    naruhina Fapstronaut

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    Okay thank you