Although I did really enjoy getting my toes painted it didn't do my fetish any good and just made me even more aroused when looking at someone with nails done wether it was male or female
Believe me when I say that you are not gay. You need to see your fetish as the item that arouses you (fingernails) and not the people who are wearing them. I mean, a monkey could be wearing painted fingernails and it would probably turn you on, right? Stop looking at those images. They trigger your GOCD.
Yeah I will stop and thank you so much it really helps especially when I hear it coming from someone else who had the same issues as me
So with your diaper fetish if you saw a transgendered person or a animal wearing adult diapers youd most likely be aroused by them, due to the item being worn ?
Yes, therein lies the battle. It will be tough. Are you ready to fight? Every time I would step into a pharmacy or department store I would think about going and looking at diapers in the incontinence isle. I had to train myself to not look in that direction or even get close to those isles. It got so bad that just driving by a pharmacy would trigger me. I imagine for you it will be driving by a nail salon. Do you get aroused if you see nail polish or fingernails in a store?
Also the other thing was when watching gay porn or transgender porn, is be getting turned off however once the thought of a woman or painted nails immediately if have a hard on within seconds. That is surely just another reason to prove that I am straight correct?
Yes, my focus was on the diaper, it didn’t matter who or what was wearing it. Even an advertisement would turn me on. Even pictures online of just the diaper and a description of its absorbent features would trigger me.
Yeah I do sometimes ill just look at the jar of nail.polish and instant boner occurs, I've had relationships with girls and once I've told them about my nail fetish they either start doing my nails for me or just stop being in the relationship with me, cause tbh Its a bad situation to be in
Jesus it sounds like we are both on the same page for a fetish So we both understand the struggles we go through
As you say Dopamine is everywhere, the historical reason of dopamine was eating, without dopamine we wouldn't like chasing or look for food. For example when we were going to hunt, we saw a deer nearby, -shot of dopamine- we get closer and closer, -more dopamine shots-, we kill the animal, another shot of dopamine.. actually eating itself releases dopamine. So, what's the problem about Dopamine? The problem is that it is addictive, it makes us dependant of habits that usualy work in detriment to us, like when you feel your cellphone vibrate and you have the urge to see the message, that is dopamine, it makes us addicted to cellphones. It makes us addicted to porn, ejaculation. All those things are unhealthy, pathetic, unproductive and pointless. That is the reason, and that is the dark side of dopamine, it is highly addictive.
Well just goinf by i individuals cause ive watched all sorts of porn and the only one that does arouse me when looking at a individual and not their nails is women, however if watching a gay porn and seeing the man play with his penis with paintes nails I still go limp
Yes. I know exactly what you are going through. That is what makes this website so valuable. You no longer need to fight this thing alone. I have friends on this site who share my same fetish as well as other fetishes and we support each other while we battle along side each other. It makes a huge difference.
Like its come to the point that even though all the signs are their that I am straight, I still try to find reasoning that I may still be gay
I can see that you truly have GOCD by the number of times you’ve talked about this. It’s ok though, I know you are trying to get past this!
If you’re interested you can read my introduction post by clicking on the link to my journal found in the signature block at the bottom of this message.
Nope, fetishes are related to objects, not people. So if you can you need to stop worrying about whether or not you are gay. It would be like me wondering whether or not I was attracted to incontinent people because I like wearing diapers for sexual pleasure. Uh, the answer is NO!