Don't feel the same level of attraction at 110 days

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by neoniccrystal, Apr 5, 2024.

  1. neoniccrystal

    neoniccrystal Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I am currently on 110 days of retention, but I am not feeling the same level of attraction (from men or women) or confidence that I felt between days 60-90. I am not planning on breaking the streak, but would highly appreciate any inputs on what's going on? Am i going through flatline?If so isn't it a little late?

    NOTE - The retention this time has been different, where I haven't peaked or got a lot of erections from thought either. You can say this retention was the hardest and most pure compared to my past streaks.

    Thank you
     
  2. Is there a law that you always need to experience attraction?
    Seems to be a good sign imo. Being attracted all the time is só tiresome.
     
  3. neoniccrystal

    neoniccrystal Fapstronaut

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    You are right, but it seems to be a good motivator sign for me :)
     
  4. I_Am_Strong_54

    I_Am_Strong_54 Fapstronaut

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    I would say that maybe that increased level of attraction has become your new normal after 110 days and you don't notice it because it's just part of your regular day now.
     
  5. Whatever it is, I have found out it's better to live without porn than with.
    The rest will somehow follow.
     
  6. ...I think I started feb 25th....don't really feel real huge urges...but then I've ben a hermit haha.I work in a city where ppl are different and don't go out as much. I would think that it would be more challenging for me to not pmo-ing anymore.Guess I realized what damage this addiction has done to me and my career...and want change.....
     
  7. neoniccrystal

    neoniccrystal Fapstronaut

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    Ah interesting thank you that really helps :) I work at a gas station currently and I have had multiple customers comment that they feel really positive aura around me. These comments have really motivated me to keep going.
     
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  8. neoniccrystal

    neoniccrystal Fapstronaut

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    I 100% agree life without porn or masturbation or any sort of release is so much better attraction or not. I work at a gas station currently and I have had multiple customers comment that they feel really positive aura around me. These comments have really motivated me to kept going.
     
  9. neoniccrystal

    neoniccrystal Fapstronaut

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    yes keep going it really changes everything and initial days are easier, it becomes harder when you go out or have some sort of trigger that brings back those urges and you have to fight through it.