Dealing with high libido. Sick and tired of it

My advice to you is have a wank but try a bit of pure organic cooking coconut oil on your cock. be careful with this advice though! Coconut oil has yeast in it so go small and you can always up how much you apply carefully if it doesn't help.

When I get crazy horny it calms me down, even made me blow my load slower.

If coconut doesn't help try pure organic cooking olive oil BUT! Be careful Olive oil has more yeast in it.

Don't keep applying these methods every single day though the yeast will build up. ONLY use it when your super horny making sure you have breaks from it.

Hope this helps, reply back if you want about it

 

I also had a very high libido when I was a teen... You should try semen retention and stay busy all the time.

 

Most on this site would say they have a high libido, hence the addiction to PMO. My suggestion would be to find a healthy person to have a nice relationship with and have sex. The only way I could keep my libido in line was to have sex often with a loving partner.

Best of luck,
Nomo

 

Wish it was easy or else I would try but I've always fallen at the hurdle of getting to know someone via texts. I'm not confident enough to go to a bar/restaurant its too intense for me and anyway I have learning disabilities, ADHD/OCD making those initial meet ups VERY difficult.

I'd love to wave a magic wand and hook up with someone but magic does not exist on Earth for me and never will.

 

I'd wager the majority of guys on here are nowhere near being able to get into a relationship or have sex. I'd go even further than that and say many men on here can't even imagine being in a relationship or having sex with anyone. I know you mean well with this but you may as well be saying "Homeless? Just buy a house!" when you give this advice.

 

Yeah this is partly why I've never dated anyone or even made a serious attempt to. Being in public, specifically in large crowds or noisy places, makes me extremely anxious to the point I can't think clearly and it only seems to get worse the older I get. The world is not kind to people who act in any way outside of social expectations and any pretense that people actually support those who do, or those with mental illness is a load of horseshit. I'm not diagnosed with anything but I'm just "weird" enough that people are often put off by my personality, and when you combine that with general insecurity my confidence when it comes to dealing with people is at rock bottom. People who actually date others and have sex with them may as well be aliens to me.

 

Get a punching bag and hit the ever loving shit out of it until you're too tired to be in the mood. Only a matter of time until you're a crazy street fighter bunching your way to new adventures.

 

You don’t have a high libido. You’re just a normal 19 year old. That’s what it sounds like.

A question tho, to better understand your situation: what do you mean by “you’re always stressed out”? That might be your trigger…that makes you sexually obsessed into always thinking and fantasizing about a sexual release.

 

When you get horny do pushups and situps. Do as many as you can. Check to see if still horny. If still horny, repeat.

 

Are you a late bloomer for puberty? I didn’t go through puberty till late in my teens and was horny as hell 24/7. It’s a normal thing.

Back then I used to watch porn and jerk all the time but if I could go back in time I’d try to swap it for working out and doing activities which benefit your life. Go for a run or a walk. Even if your horny whilst walking or running you’ll be unlikely to show your sausage off in public

Tbh I still have a very high libido. Even with a partner it’s a struggle because her libido has decreased over the years. I could go all day if I had the chance but I can’t do so I look for other activities.

 

We should make that question a poll. Are you in a sexual relationship now, Yes or No. If I can figure out how to do that, I'll ask that question.

 

If you click on "Start a thread" and scroll down, the option is there to add a poll.

 

Sorry that you are having these problems. If it makes you feel better, it was never easy! Although I do feel like I had good luck when it came to finding women in my life.

I know some people with ADHD/OCD who struggled with relationships and other things, but through counseling and MEDICATION they were able to find partners that were right for them. So don't give up, there is someone out there for everyone, including you.

 

Thank you, which forum should I post this question? We can elima

Done, cast your vote!

 

When i was teen, my right hand was basically glued to my member.

 

I know what it’s like.

When I was your age, I was working a part time job, full time school, and full time volunteering at my church in ministry.

It may be the case for you that you deem (in your mind) it fit to have sexual release as the reward for yourself at the end of much laborious work…idk for sure, but it could be given your situation…

Just to be clear, being productive and engaged in much diligent and fruitful activity as a young man is very good. It’s much better than wasting time on pointless activities or just too much recreation. So it sounds like you’re getting your future set up for yourself, which is awesome! Keep at it!

Now, what you have to do in order to properly diagnose your obsessive behavior is to (1) identify at which time of the day it happens, (2) what is it usually in response to, and (3) what other restful or healthy activity you could substitute for just fantasizing and jerking off in bed.

The options are endless. But an example of such, Especially if it’s when your in bed falling asleep, are just meditation apps or any kind of audio you can listen to that is serene and calming that could help you fall asleep and not fantasize. That’s just an example. Of course, you would need to properly diagnose the root of your problem before just addressing the symptoms.

just my 2 cents.