Chastity Methods judgement free

Hello. I am Bob. New here.

I have read many thoughts over the years about chastity and chastity devices. The views are across the horizon from sunrise to sunset.

I first will say that I am locked in a chastity device. Married. Not part of a BDSM scene. I am committed personally to No PMO. I dont judge. I have my thoughts and its ok if they arent yours, and vice versa.

There seems to be a lot of opinions and categorizing the use of chastity devices on this and other sites. Its kink, its not kink its a crutch, its not a crutch, it's evil, it's good, god don't like, god would approve of it. (Religion cannot be discussed in this forum do leave that for another place... Words of administrator. I agree.)

I have heard it all. I am 5 1/2 years caged. I have read it all and discussed it so and heard it all. This is meant tobe a fair asseament of chastity devices. It has worked well for me in my nofap no PMO endeavors, and a wife that is happier for reasons to talk about later. Pure clean wholesome reasons.

Anyone want to start? Post or DM me if you wish.

Peace. Bob.

 

Great question. Short answer is, I haven't had one...yet. I dont know if this factors in, but I am in my late 50s. Also, until a recent change in no longer being self locked, I dont know how long I would have to go before that happens... if it happens. No my wife and I have not had any intimate contact. But, again, since I am no longer self locked, the ability to fap is no longer available to me. I had relapses along the way, but about a year ago, I was locked permanently and have no key so no slip ups. I couldn't fap if I wanted to. Someone would have to know and unlock me and thats just not going to happen. The longer I go, the less desire I have to fap. But that is not going to get me out. I don't really have a problem anymore. Overnight erections seem to be a thing of the past, but no limp emissions either. I don't do porn and am careful what I am exposed to on TV and the media. Even if I see a hottie and I do a double take, since I am a male not dead, I have thoughts but they do not translate into erections.