Any tips for me for potentially losing my virginity on my birthday?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by TheLoneWolf88, Dec 9, 2023.

  1. TheLoneWolf88

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    Honestly, I feel more than ready to lose it, as my virgin life has been tortuous. A girl found me on Reddit, kinda local, and she loves breaking in late bloomers. Is there anything I need to do so I don't feel as tense on that day?
     
  2. Prophet Harry

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    Use a good quality condom and don't even think about going raw if you don't wanna get any STDs.
     
  3. Not to rain on your parade but I'd be immediately suspicious of this whole situation lmao.
     
  4. Prophet Harry

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    Same here!
     
  5. OP about to be sacrificed to an Elder God.
     
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  6. TheLoneWolf88

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    I'm proceeding with caution. Anybody could be anybody online. But really how many chances have I ever gotten? Just 3, and I ruined them all
     
  7. TheLoneWolf88

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    But at least I'm now able to see which are fake accounts or scammers.
     
  8. Rostrock47

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    I don't know why you want to lose virginity at all costs instead of developing a true relationship with someone slowly but steadily. Relationship isn't about sex it's about compassion, understanding, love, talking to each other, romance, traveling and so much more. I doubt you're gonna feel any better after you'll lose virginity to someone who you don't even know or barely know. But if that's what you really want, do your thing man I'm not going to teach you what to do man
     
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  9. Just be careful.
     
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  10. TheLoneWolf88

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    I've been trying to get rid of it since I was 20, but never could. After age 25, I couldn't land anybody. My virginity is the splinter in my mind that's driving me crazy. I just want to know what it's like.
     
  11. Rostrock47

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    Ok, but beware of STD and other diseases and if possible try to do it with someone you know from work or somewhere else...
     
  12. AbelHimself

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    My thoughts exactly, bro might wake up in a bathtub full of ice without his kidneys. Be careful OP!
     
  13. EmperorLaStrang

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    Is she a prostitute?

    As others said I'd be careful.

    I wouldn't worry about having surgery performed on you or getting trafficked, while that does happen. It's pretty rare. I'd worry about getting robbed or being suckered into a johnny operation by police.

    You have no idea what you're walking into and I would use extreme caution or just shell out the money to go to Amsterdam.
     
  14. TheLoneWolf88

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    No, she's not a prostitute. I have a week to talk to her, and I'll have a video call one day. Still I'm willing to take the risk
     
  15. EmperorLaStrang

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    So she's willing to have sex with you for free?
     
  16. jk243

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    What the hell is this thread ? Bro why you want to lose your virginity so much .. trust me your value will remain the same and you risk to create problems for yourself… build a relationship first and then sex will come after , do not be trapped in these one and done trap of the devil. Develop important skills, workout and practice semen retentions if you can.

    Also I expected better from you people advising him , we are on a website where are fighting against porn addiction but you guys find it normal for him to randomly have sex with a strange Redditor out of the blue, like really ?
     
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  17. EmperorLaStrang

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    Like really?

    He's going to do what he wants to do regardless.

    If he wants to lose it to some stranger and regret it later then its his right to go ahead. You can't talk him out of it.

    I'm more concerned for the problems doing so will create for him like getting robbed, getting a disease, or something much worse.

    Usually when I see replies like this its from people who aren't virgins so they can't understand the burden one feels having it especially in their 30s.

    I think all of us who have replied on this thread agree that this is an ignorant idea. I have't seen one person here reply telling him to do so.
     
  18. TheLoneWolf88

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    Dude, I hate being a virgin so much. I've wanted it gone for years
     
  19. TheLoneWolf88

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    Why is everybody being such a letdown? I understand it's a risk, and I'm treading lightly
     
  20. Because the idea of a strange woman finding you on social media who by sheer coincidence lives close to you, who just happens to love having sex with virgins and is willing to sleep with you is extremely suspicious. As soon as I read your post I imagined you waking up handcuffed to a bed with a scar over where your kidney used to be and your wallet stolen. Now maybe you shouldn't listen to me, I'm extremely paranoid, but are you seriously telling me that your spidey sense isn't being set off by this?