Day 51. I dont know what am I feeling, but it is not urge to P,M. I noticed, that many of our bros relapsed recently. If you are one of them I want to give you an advice. I think you need more believe in your goal and yourself.. When I started this challange I didnt know that I am starting 90 days challange. I had told to myself: yeah, cool site with cool information, I feel that I need change, P,M is slowly destructing me.. the longest streak I had ever had was around two weeks, maybe once.. in last years maybe 3-4 days.. so I had told myself that I am going to reach 7 days without PM, when the 7 days have been done, I was really happy and I trusted myself much more so I went for (in those times) real challange - 21 days without P,M - hard to believe at the beginning but I have it done. Of course, urges, edging, bad toughst, I have everything like every other, but I trust in myself.. if I could make 7 days then 21, why the fuck I wouldnt make 90 ? Lol because it is 4 times longer ? Fuck it, it is math, I dont really like math, I dont care about number, I know that Im going to make my goal because I have won 2 times over believing in myself. Just trust bros! And take it slowly, after parts, you dont need to make 90 days in row on your first attempt. Choose attempt that you believe you can do! Thats my advice. I wish you the best.
Day 53/90 Feeling good and happy to be doing the challenge. Thanks for all the support and likes of my posts. It really helps. Cheers!
Day 4 started. Had a great sleep. Gotta keep myself busy. Last night, my brain started rationalising me for instant gratification, never responded to that and slept. That's a battle won. Have to win this war. Stay strong mates.
I can' believe it. Today, I'll be completing my mission, which is 30 challenges. This is my first time I've reached 30 days without PMO. I'm gonna be continuing 60 challenges then. Many thanks all of you for creating motivations. Love you all. Keep going, Our life definitely changes day by day. Have a great day
Word, abstaining from P/M gives me the confidence to further abstain from P/M if that makes any sense It's like a symbiotic relationship, the more time spent abstaining the easier it becomes to abstain Almost like I'm exercising/nurturing a part of my brain that doesn't want PMO All we can do is grow and improve as a person and as a man Thank you for sharing and good luck on your journey
Cold shower helps me with this. I kid you not that now when a sexual fantasy sets in and my dick starts to rise the next thing in my mind is "cold showers! Remember those? And my thoughts starts to fade away. If they don't they have to meet their initial fate... cold shower. By the way there are a lot of techniques about it so make sure you read them they may help. Good luck
I hear you brother! Glad you caught yourself. I went through a similar thing recently, just the beginnings of the slippery slope by looking at some sexy Facebook pics, a few other non nude pics on internet, started watching some shows with nudity...it can be difficult to change course but it can be done by realizing what we’re doing and staying aware and being cautious, but not afraid. It’s a tricky balance because at times I can watch shows with a little nudity or sex scenes (just watched an episode of a different show that has a bit of nudity but didn’t really trigger anything) and then at times it’s best to go stretches where I make a point to stay away from all nudity and risqué images. Good luck brother!
24/90...it really is just today...keep it going everyone, we can do this. It doesn’t take an extraordinary person, it just takes extraordinary determination.
