I constantly keep thinking about legs, heels and girl skirts and sorry I am so direct again but I keep thinking about it and can somebody tell me what is going on?
No it's not. You're wrong You think like that you will go online and find some similar material and whack off. Or you might not find online porn and just whack off over it. Both equally bad. Furthermore the thoughts are the starting point....
You need to take a deep breath and count to 10 or something. We all go through this in different ways, have different experiences and different mind sets. The fact that he thinks about women i prefectly natural. What he does with it is what matters. Yes, it could result in relapse. Or he can learn to control ut and not allow it to control him.
Going through this is normal especially if you're in first or second week of your streak. Try cold showers and daily meditation. This is a very good solution, please use it and you see the results: write down everything that comes in your mind. Don't worry you burn that piece of paper after you're done. Write down everything no matter how bad and nasty you think they are. Just write down everything. Your feelings, thoughts and anything that comes in mind. this will help a lot. It'll help you to take control of your mind and see things for real. good luck mate.
True. And also I realized that everything comes from the mind first. It happens in the mind and then it manifests in reality.