Loneliness make me sad, and want to pay to stay with a woman.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by shizui04421, Feb 8, 2023.

  1. shizui04421

    shizui04421 Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, currently i have been feeling lonely and bored, and even if i learned to avoid adult content, i am starting to think about payin real woman to spend time toghter and doing stuffs... i am not religious, but doin that would be a relaplse, but i dont know what to think in order to avoid having those toughts and doing that...
     
  2. I hope everything is okay with you my friend. I've sent you an PM.
     
  3. Hey @shizui04421, I'm sorry to hear you're struggling, brother. Sounds like you're in a rough patch. Lemme know if there's anything I can do to help.
     
  4. You need a hard mode reboot. The goal is to upgrade your life so you don't get like this.
     
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    shizui04421 Fapstronaut

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    yes men, i am doing hard reboot, i have been on 4 months streak now, yesterday i watched a couple of P but i did not touch my self at all, do you think i should stop care of the mistake and keep going with the progress or is better to do a full relapse to get rid of the hornyness it gave and start again ?
     
  6. No. Never relapse. Go full hard mode for 90 days.
     
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    shizui04421 Fapstronaut

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    yessir currently i am on 4 months, hard mode, i was doing great and i wanted to keep go great, but after watching a couple of video i feel like my brain is shutdown and more horny, like the only way to solve this mistake is by relapsing, but if you guys tell me this horny toughts will go away by them self i keep in the road...
     
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  8. I won't lie. There will always be some amount of thinking about sex.
    But we use self-control to keep focused on our life goals and to avoid PMO.
     
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    shizui04421 Fapstronaut

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    Yes sir but the toughts about "sex" will always be there even when u dont porn i think, what i am asking is if i keep dont touch my self for much time it will go away or now that i watched the porn and got horny it will stay until i dont release.
     
  10. You watched the porn, so it's going to be in your brain for a while. The longer you stay away from it, it will gradually fade. What replaces it is the natural desire for real women. BUT you need to do a serious hard mode reboot.
     
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