Hi there! Long story short: recently, I've met a girl. She is a solid 9 when it comes to talking & supporting others, BUT she is 5 in her looks. It is obvious that she likes me, but the question is: should I get into relationship with her? Or should I wait till I can find both attractive and supporting girl? Follow-up question: do girls that both highly attractive and supportive exist, or is it, as they say, a "unicorn dream"? And finally: is it really true that most of the time physical attraction is not one of the key points when it comes to finding your SO?
Do you want to be in a relationship with her? This isn’t a life changing decision. If you don’t want her, then friend her. If you want her, then try it out. You don’t even have to get into a relationship. Of course girls like that exist. But, there’s a difference between amazingly attractive and amazingly good looking. Cleopatra was a 5 in looks. But, she could have any man she wanted - and did.
I have no experience in dating, but I would date someone more for how she makes me feel than for how she looks. If you can look at her eyes indefinetly, then that's enough for me.
Thanks for your opinion! Sounds really simple - I'll try it out! Hehe, I think it would rather narcisistic of me to say that I'm a 9 at anything Nonetheless, I'd say I'm about 6-7 at both and there is a room for improvement. I go to gym and, to be honest, I'm overly supportive sometimes (and I'd actually say naive), and right now I'm practicing assertiveness in order to stand up for my values. so yeah, not a 9, but not a complete loser as well
