Wanting to finally change my habit for real.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by goattoram, Nov 13, 2018.

  1. goattoram

    goattoram Fapstronaut

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    Hi there,

    I have been watching pornography and masterbating since I was in the 4th grade, and although I do not fall into my temptations everyday, it's been something I've been battling all my life. It has shaven away my confidence and self-esteem and I want to commit to making a change for real. I hope this community will keep me accountable and encouraged to make this change.

    Thanks!
     
  2. Buzz Rees

    Buzz Rees Fapstronaut

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    Hey dude!

    I think this place and community are excellent to help encourage you. Welcome and I wish you the very best.

    You're mainly accountable to yourself, though. To your tomorrow's self, especially. Every day, even the smallest bit of achievement and improving means you'll be a better man tomorrow. Never a Superman, but a better man. Step by step. Day by day. Now is the time. Today is the day. No need to delay it, postpone it. Your self esteem and confidence can be a smidgeon better tomorrow. And another notch further up the day after. And so on. That's real change.
     
  3. goattoram

    goattoram Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the encouragement!

    I think you are right in that while a community with the same goals can be helpful, I am ultimately accountable to myself. I will keep that in mind as I journey on. Thanks!