PolarOtter

Thanks for reaching out... we all need buds during the storm.

That’s ultimately up to you, my man. Personally I believe it’s important to rewire to the real thing...that’s the goal after all. As long as we are not fantasizing during the act or thinkin of porn like scenarios, it should be fine. Just be on guard for the chaser effect! Welcome to nofap :)

Thanks, I appreciate your thoughts. I completely get the rewiring thing and, although I have fantasized while with him in the past to climax, know that would not be the case now. Thanks to the glossary, I am also aware of the Chaser Effect and it does add another layer to the decision.