Thanks. It was pretty quiet here. Visited some family. SO got the flu right after d day while traveling. I don’t know where things stand. Going to give it a few more days before I check in with him.
Hard to tell. My SO was out of town all last week and had the flu the whole time. He hasn’t brought up anything to do with PMO. I haven’t either. I figured I wouldn’t check in with him about anymore than every 2 weeks unless something was urgently bugging me.
I know the majority of people on here are not partners, but pmo addicts. So, finding support can be more difficult. Never give up.
I just want to say what’s on my mind to my husband. I’m afraid of the consequences. I don’t want to deal with the fallout. I’ve been saying all this positive stuff to other people but in truth I’m a hypocrite.
No judgement here. I think at some point we all are hypocrites. Your husband has PA right....? I wouldn't understand these stuff since I'm not married and still young but I know it's PMO that's to be blamed for
Yes SO is PA. I finally addressed this with him right before he left for a trip between Xmas and new year. He got the flu on the trip and is still recovering. So I’m waiting till the weekend to check in with him.
Welcome to NoFap. Please do consider a thread in Rebooting in a Relationship > Partner Support. You'll probably be somewhat comfortable with seeing answers to questions in journals of the 40+ area, as well.