On day 17 of hardmode I was making out with my gf and when she started to blow me I came instantly. Initially the plan was I would not cum but I came way too quicky. Would this be a reset to hardmode?
Depends on what you count as hard mode....Hard mode generally means no masturbating, no porn, no sex, and no orgasm, no fooling around...etc But if you are QUESTIONING it already if your cumming by manual stimulation is a reset....than I would call it a reset. Try not to play with fire....Stay Strong!!!
Yes, of course. In hard mode, any orgasm you have contributed towards is a reset, I think. So the only time it isn't a reset is if you're having a wet dream or if you're being stimulated while you aren't supposed to (riding a horse, for example).
But hardmode do not prevent making out. My question is basically has my 17 days of hardmode gone to waste for the orgasm?
Sounds like a reset in Hard Mode, seems you'd be OK in Normal Mode where you could O with a partner. But if you're pursuing the benefits of Hard Mode, not the end of the world, just a restart to your count. Without getting too colorful here, did you attend to her needs as well? was it a mutual experience? Just my opinion so far on a goal of including a partner while also avoiding any of the objectification of woman that you might have from viewing Porn.
Good question mate, I did. First ate her pussy then made her cum, I also feel its extremely important that I attend to her needs as well, since I cant have successful intercourse with her all the time.
Well, there you have it... Sounds like you're making this happen. If you are supporting each other and you don't just see her as a set of orifices to $#* in, more power to you. Probably not what others on this site will call Hard Mode, though, FWIW.
Yes, technically, it is a reset. But a damn cool one. Don't feel bad about that one bit! Reset doesn't necessarily mean relapse.