Hey, man. Florida here, too. I'm married with kids and have been battling this nemesis for as long as I can remember. I gave up NoFap some time ago because I'd not yet found a solid and regular AP; I attempted to go it alone. Only failure ensued. Have you found a helpful AP yet? If not, then I'd be glad to become one.
Why do you need to fap if you have a wife? Then again I've always been single so I might be biased on this
Ask any married guy whether he's satisfied with his sex life. 1% will be; 98% won't; and 1% will be lying about it.