Addicted to Cam Girls

Wow men yeah there is ways to block it I mean in all reality you want to gain control by semen retention= will power, but its costing you money definetly, if its such of thing to spend money might as well get a hooker for that money and practice real sex just abstain from orgasm and callit money better spend it is low cost than slaving yourself further to pmo, it is an slavement what technology has done to us and society, but anyways we have to find ways to go around it. Think hey i spent 660 on this shit the other day how about spending 660 on a rehab camp cashout vacations or what not and go there.

 

Honestly. Delete your account before you use your tokens. Delaying only means your not committed to giving it up. I used to use sites like this all the time and it did nothing good. Quit now and don' look back.

 

I could write a book on the addiction trap of the cam website! I was even a fan club member of two unpretentious, wonderful people who are highly loved and respected. But the credit bills ran high because of tokens and my respectful comments and gifs had to mix in with the comments and gifs of the sewer rats! Let's face it! Contributing new age sentiment in a porn site just isn't worth it! And I would sit there in front of the TV transfixed by their beauty with this pie-in-the-sky fantasy of actually meeting them someday and making love to them! I wish them well. I know they have to earn a living but I'd rather support my loved ones rather than images on a TV screen. And to think that I would feel cheap and unworthy seeing those regular high tippers dropping 500 and 1000 token bombs! What a racket! I'm so glad I got the hell out of there!

 

Love Is Grand, you said a mouthful. Chat rooms are the most destructive force on the planet, in my opinion. You are lured in by the pretty woman who is so sweet and never asks you for a thing, just to "Follow" them. But of course, you want to be a "regular" and show you can match the other guys. And you get such nice private messages! And then the emails...you send one and that first reply back makes you feel special and loved and handsome and strong. They are so warm and sweet and have so many happy fans and yes, you do start to think you could actually meet therm! And of course, next time there, you tip more and get more love and more emails. And pretty soon, you never miss a show and dive into a credit card for money you do not have. But you feel "special" and like one of "the guys". But the minute you express any reservation or stop dropping big tokens on them...things change fast and your emails get short shrift, terse one-liners expressing hope you feel better soon. Gone are the long "heartfelt" declarations of love and affection. And yes, we all have to earn a living, but few of us prey on vulnerabilities like chat hosts in order to make our livings, with false promises of love and desire and wanting to meet you someday. Glad you and i got out. Time to repair the damage. We could probably tell each other a lot of stories.

 

Close the account today and do not look back. Take the hurt and fight through it if you feel you are losing a lover or someone special. I have been through this as well, being promised i might meet them, poured out my heart to them and felt thrilled to get a response and a kiss at the end of the reply, as long as i was a "regular" and dropping tokens.. Understand you are being preyed upon by professionals, sociopaths with no regard for you feelings. They will do and say whatever they can to keep you a part of their income stream, using PM's, letting you email them and buy them lingerie and praising you in open chat to build your ego and generally make a big deal about you to keep the stream going. Remember, they make only five cents off each token, so the amounts need to be high to make it worth while. Some of them are real pros who invest thousands in equipment and toys and a special room with high quality production values to make it so easy to love them and spend hundred of dollars, and i have watched men drop thousands at one time, hundreds of dollars in her hands. Good for him and her, but the minute it stops, the emails and PMs stop and you realize how much this is just a sales pitch and you are just an income source, no more no less, never a real love interest.
Persuasion one thing, lying to you about your chances with them and toying with your affections and ego is another. Good luck. Close the account and find something new. Even porn is less insidious and doesn't drain your money with false promises.

 

From an outside point of view, this sounds a lot like your recovery is not even worth the pain of losing 80 bucks to you.

Your middle paragraph is not necessarily what you think it is. You've encountered some difficulty, made an assumption, and decided to believe it's true. I can't, I can't, I can't. Addictive minds are masters in dealing out a royal flush of excuses. I have always found results and excuses to be inversely proportional to each other.

They say: no pain, no gain. This life is the only one you've got. Work on today. It's just 24 hours. Do what needs to be done today. Stay clean today. If today sucks, so be it. It just may be the 'banquet of consequences' that we have to sit down to.

 

I just realized that the thread was from last November, so resurrected post. The OP has not been heard from since, so hopefully he's in a better place, although I'm not surprised this is the result of the "weaning" approach. Learn from this.

Also, keep in mind that we should not be posting names of specific P sites. Police yourself.

 

I closed the account a couple days ago. Now all those women will be more and more a passing memory, drifting away like a cloud. I even closed my Twitter, for the only reason getting an account was to contact those women 'off the side'! Thank God I never emailed them directly...the infatuation power of that could have placed me pass the point of no return!

 

At least the mods here at NoFap are on our side! Too many times on the cam site, the mods would more or less pester people to tip, especially us 'supposedly rich dark purple usernames'...Haha...like we stood on a pedestal above the lesser ranked colors, especially the lowly 'greys'! LOL! Sometimes I voluntarily switched from dark purple to turquoise, designating one who bought tokens but hasn't tipped yet. At least I was more or less left alone! Yes, we can now share stories and laugh about that site without ever again being entangled again!

 

And oh yes, all the bookmarks of my favorite cam girls have been deleted as well, for sometimes I would see them not logged in to be free from the user list so the mod or model wouldn't prey on the 'dark purple guy' for tips! Haha!

 

It is powerful stuff for a guy looking for attention. I found a "How To" manual one wrote. Teaching how to break us down to get us to tip, how to suck our credit cards dry, the way to recognize and retain and milk those huge tippers, how to sort out who will be lucrative and who to ignore. A lot of guys spending money they do not have on a false promise of getting close and meeting the woman. I have to admit i am totally embarrassed by how easily i believed them and thought I might actually get somewhere with them. I urge you to do some online research and find these cam girl marketing manuals and read just how sociopath they can actually be and how little feeling they have for you as they carefully try to set you up for long-term support of their site through tokens and gift lists and personal presents. Once you become one of the regulars, watch what happens if you suddenly see the light and back off; the emails stop, the interest vanishes, and that "friend" you thought you had suddenly could not care less about the hell you suddenly find yourself in.

 

I have sort of done this too not in ages viewed webcam girl’s online and couples having sex and paid them. Not done much in awhile as I get bored so easily move onto something else.