Flavours: Porn Detox (Beginner mode): Just don't watch any porn/nudes at all..that's it Standard Reboot: No PM. Sexy time permitted only with a friend Hard Mode: No PMO whatsoever 6 Milestones: 1st & 15th of each month (doesn't matter if you start mid-month). Check in daily, weekly, or at least on 1st and 15th days for best results or your money back. Also mention when you would like to upgrade or downgrade your current challenge (no shame in that). \/ Sign up below with your: Chosen challenge flavour. Any progress you're on right now (even if it's day 1 again). Something awesome, a lesson, one liner, or anything you've learned in your journey so far. Whose with me? PS: Starting late? Who cares.. Just hang on until the next milestone. Or fit the 90 days before a day of significance to you (a birthday? Graduation date? Holiday?). For instance, today is 4th April so you can do 90 before 4th July. You've got this.
Nice idea . I'm with you on this challenge! And yeah, I'm on day 1 again. As for the line I've learned along the way, maybe cliched, but my motto is: "I want to make the rest of my life, the best of my life". Edit: oh, I forgot: hard mode for me.
Me: Standard reboot Day 7 (Last orgasm was from real sex and intend to keep it that way) Lesson: Keep coming back, I've personally been terrible at these challenges this year but coming back and trying again I've found myself lasting longer and longer and ultimately experiencing better and better sex.
Im in! • Standard rebooth • S and O with wife • Currently at day 11 • Some things Ive learned along the way: keep your focus on all the good things life has to offer you, spend more time outside and do some bonding with friends/family! And most important of all, get some sh*t done and get productive!
I'm in, great to have some traveling companions. Standard reboot for me, on day 25 now. One day are a time! Good luck! Nom
I am in! -HARD mode! -40 days so far, about to break my longest streak -something I learned: Never give up! Direct energy to something meaningful! Keep reading the post everyday (doing this and using the emergency button helped me VASTLY) -be a boss at the gym!
Welcome Everyone, We're 4 days in. It's never late to start. Take it day by day. If you start/reboot today you still have exactly 3 months until the 4th July. @aka711 fear not.
I'm in. 90 days hard challenge. If successful, would complete on July 4th. Longest streak ever was 21 days. Lesson learned: keep laptops, tablets, phones outside bedroom. Get an alternate alarm clock.
Well I guess I will jump in... Hard Mode! 26 days in! So far I've learned, since joining this forum and starting a journal, that putting my thoughts in letters helps me learn about myself and find solutions to my challenges as well as stay motivated by putting my goals and resolutions public. Journaling FTW, much recommended.
HARD MODE: Day 2 - No porn - no Masturbation - Girlfriend graduated college and is long distance (I will totally cave in on purpose if I get to see her though lol)
Welcome and congrats @steven968, @Nom De Plume, @Letsgoandgetclean1, @aka711 & @Shugi Shugi on your progress so far. How do you guys feel? @jatar still hanging on? @Un-fapped same here! @Wave_Rider I have a similarish situation. Are you referring to the chaser effect? HARD MODE people: The goal here is to rewire/eliminate the dependence on Porn and masturbation (and even subs) forever, and promote great natural sex. Hard mode is great because it gives your junk some time to recover/sensitive and it can be tough over long periods (hats off to you). Feel free to switch to standard reboot after a month or when you meet that special someone (state the change here when you do) but remember the risks of the chaser. DON'T however switch from hard mode to the beginner challenge unless you really are a beginner and you're really struggling.. in that case... baby steps.
It's close to 50 days! yay! just break my longest streak before: 45 days I feel this huge urge at day 7 and day 40, between them there were long flatline. I am in another flatline now, but I will keep hang in there! So far I feel more energy, more eye contact with people, and more mind clarity! still no date or crush lol KEEP MOVING FORWARD!
So far so good, still the occasional struggle but looking forward to getting clean. Hope everyone is doing well or at least hanging in there! Nom
PMOed, resetting to Day 1. Did not follow my rule, which is keep internet connected devices outside of bedroom.
I almost spontaneously O'd just from my thoughts (which I have very little control over at this point) yesterday. Still in the game tho.