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Should i make a tinder account?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by seth, Mar 10, 2016.

  1. seth

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    I've been wrestling with it for a bit. I really don't want people I work with to see it, but other than that, I can see the appeal! Any thoughts? Any other dating app you'd recommend?
     
  2. Golgo 13

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    idk dude. I mean its p-subs material. I mean, I personally freak out just at looking at normal girls in videos. But tinder has straight up borderline porn lol.
    On the other hand it can get you laid. I met up with this one girl from tinder who gave me this incredible blowjob. Like damn she was good haha,
    There are plenty of other ways to meet women such as real life because honestly A LOT of tinder girls will straight up bullshit on you.

    Its better to just go to the bars and meet women there. They're less likely to bullshit on ya.
     
  3. seth

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    What do you mean about bullshitting you?
     
  4. I never used Tinder, but I did try another dating site. It was very triggering, frankly. And it's very common for girls to chat back and forth with you but then chicken out of meeting up in real life. You're probably better off just dressing up nice and going out with a good attitude..
     
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  5. Golgo 13

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    What @hermit_ninja said. They will chat with u back nd forth but will fake on actually meeting you in the real world.
    You never know who you are talking to online. Many of those "girls" might be men ready to kidnap you and take you to an unknown location were you are tortured for fun. You never know, better to just go and meet girls in real life.

    Not to say it wont work ever. Like I said I meet one girl on there. But I probably talked to like 100 girls on there and only 1 actually met up with me I real life.
     
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  6. a436

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    I would say that making a tinder account will make quitting PMO much more difficult for you. You'll have more temptation, it ends badly!
     
  7. Crispy21

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    Lol do it man and never look back.
     
  8. Crispy21

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    Gotta have more game man. Ive met up with around 20 girls or so and if it wasnt for my PIED i would have without a doubt had sex with at least half. But of the 20 i kissed id say 16 of them and went down on about 4. So yea tinder works just have game and take good pics
     
  9. Crispy21

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    Tinder gets a bad rep but idk why. Girls are on there for a reason. They dont always wanna go to bars and take a stranger home. Some arent as confident and like talkin online first then meeting up. Not like you cant delete it if you dont like it
     
  10. Golgo 13

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    haha I guess I'm just impatient and want them now lol
     
  11. seth

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    Lmao look at you making some moves. I didn't realize you had that much success even if it isn't all the way. Id install it now if my phone wasn't giving me problems lol. You've sold me already haha

    Now what about avoiding people (people who work for you, your sister, etc)?
     
  12. Crispy21

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    Tinder pro tip. If you block em on facebook they wont come up on tinder
     
  13. Crispy21

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    Yea i been on tinder for awhilee. Fucking porn and pied man. Ruined my confidence and i just knew thats there was no point to try and fuck some of those girls when my dick wasnt going anywhere lol glad im done with that porn and fapping nonsense
     
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  14. Knight Solaire

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    I'm sorry guys, but this is sad. You don't need a damn dating site to meet women. How about you get up off your lazy asses and go socialize a bit? I am a huge introvert and I still found the love of my life from simply talking to her face to face.

    Tinder, OKcupid, MeetMe etc. etc. etc. are all desperate attempts for desperate people to find other desperate people and use them for sex or MO. Using people for sex or fantasizing is objectification, which is something you will have to get over to remove porn from your life. We are here to evolve past this oversexualized mindset, not predate it. We aren't fucking monkeys anymore. We don't go humping everything that walks, so stop acting like it. Get your damn act together guys
     
  15. NoBrainer

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    That sounds familiar ;)
     
  16. Crispy21

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    Lol literally nothing you said is anything OP asked. Wanted to know if he should make one or not.
     
  17. One of the most backwards posts I've read on here in a long time.
     
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  18. Crispy21

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    Areed and ive seen some pretty bad posts on here. Dudes rambling like a mad man and no one asked
     
  19. seth

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    I understand your point, @Knight Solaire, but I dont agree. For some of us, making a tinder account is getting out there. And just because it's a dating site, why are you assuming the sex from a tinder date would lead to objectification? How would I be using that person? It's a dating site. It leads to first dates. If we hook up, that's a consensual decision. No one's using the other person.

    And also, who told you that this was replacing meeting women at other venues? That's a big assumption of you to think that I'm sitting at home doing nothing to help myself meet women. I have a date with someone this Friday as a matter of fact and I did not meet her on Tinder.

    I understand your frustration a bit, but be careful before you make assumptions and lash out.
     
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  20. Knight Solaire

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    I was overly judgemental and rude. I apologize for this. I wish you guys the best of luck with your journeys
     
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